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473 the seven qualities of a Godly Man or Woman

SECTION 1: NEW CREATION. Basic. We are born in sin this is a biblical fact. A child who is baptized by the parents is not saved from eternal damnation. When a child is baptized into the Christian church this is not biblical process. A person when they are old enough to choose between what is right and what is wrong. When a person understands they have a soul. When a person chooses for themselves they want to go to heaven. They have to accept Yeshua into their hearts. After accepting Yeshua in our hearts we become a new creations. What does this phrase “New Creation” mean biblically? We will take a ride through the Old and New Testaments to discover what this phrase “New Creation” means to Yehovah and to your eternal soul.

SECTION 2: THE SEVEN QUALITIES OF GODLY MEN. Intermediate level. Now that we truly understand what it means to be a “New Creation”. We must take that gained knowledge and apply it to each of our lives. If we do not apply this knowledge and understanding there is a court date, with a very coarse prosecutor. As men called by a Righteous King we must elevate ourselves to royal men. Godly men are called to be better then secular fools. We will look at 7 keys to being a Godly Husband.

SECTION 3: THE SEVEN QUALITIES OF GODLY WOMEN. Intermediate level. People in glass houses should not throw stones or get undressed. Throwing stones will break your glass and let the elements into your home. Getting undressed without a proper covering will show your nakedness to the world. As women of Yehovah you are daughters of the KING. You are required to act properly and dignified representing your Majesty as a business owner, wife, daughter and Mother. We will look at 7 incredible blessings that are here in the WORD for daughters of the Yehovah Elohim who are Godly women.

SECTION 4: DISCERNMENT. Advance level. How do I know a good man or woman, what does the scripture say?



2 Cor 5:1-17

Key verse 2Co 5:17  Therefore, if anyone is united with the Messiah, he is a new creation — the old has passed; look, what has come is fresh and new!

2Co 5:9…we try our utmost to please him;

2Co 5:10  for we must all appear before the Messiah's court of judgment

2Co 5:12…a person's appearance rather than his inner qualities.

2Co 5:4…so that what must die may be swallowed up by the Life.

2Co 5:17…what has come is fresh and new!

New G2537  καινός  kainos  Thayer Definition: new, as respects form, recently made, fresh, recent, unused, unworn, as respects substance, of a new kind, unprecedented, novel, uncommon, unheard of

Tehillim 51:1-12

Psa 51:10  (51:12) Create in me a clean heart, God; renew in me a resolute spirit.

Psa 51:2 Wash me completely

Psa 51:4 you are right in accusing me and justified in passing sentence.

Psa 51:5-6 you want truth in the inner person;


Eze 11:14-21

Eze 11:19  and I will give them unity of heart. "I will put a new spirit among you." I will remove from their bodies the hearts of stone and give them hearts of flesh;

NEW H2319  חדשׁ  châdâsh  BDB Definition: new, new thing, fresh

Eze 11:20 so that they will live by my regulations, obey my rulings and act by them.

Eze 11:21I will bring [the consequences of] their ways on their own heads,' says Adonai Elohim."


Mat 12:25-37

Mat 12:33  "If you make a tree good, its fruit will be good; and if you make a tree bad, its fruit will be bad; for a tree is known by its fruit

Mat 12:30 and those who do not gather with me are scattering.

Mat 12:31but blaspheming the Ruach HaKodesh will not be forgiven.

Mat 12:34…overflows from the heart.

Mat 12:36  Moreover, I tell you this: on the Day of Judgment people will have to give account for every careless word they have spoken;

Mat 12:37  for by your own words you will be acquitted, and by your own words you will be condemned."



 1. A wise Godly man/husband is kind and compassionate (12:10).

Pro 12:10  A righteous man takes care of his animal, but the wicked? Even his compassion is cruel.


2 A wise Godly man/husband is hard-working (12:11; 27:23-27).

Pro 12:11  He who farms his land will have plenty of food, but he who follows futilities has no sense.


3. A wise Godly man/husband is truthful (12:17,19).

Pro 12:17  He who tells the truth furthers justice, but a false witness furthers deceit.

Pro 12:18  Idle talk can pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise can heal.

Pro 12:19  Truthful words will stand forever, lying speech but a moment.


4. A wise Godly man/husband exercises self-control (12:15; 16:32).

Pro 16:32  He who controls his temper is better than a war hero, he who rules his spirit better than he who captures a city.


5. A wise Godly man/husband has a gentle tongue (12:18; 15:1-2,4).

Pro 15:1  A gentle response deflects fury, but a harsh word makes tempers rise.

Pro 15:2  The tongue of the wise presents knowledge well, but the mouth of a fool spews out folly.


 6. A wise Godly man/husband is faithful and reliable (17:17; 29:3; contrast 25:19; 31:3).

Pro 29:3  Whoever loves wisdom brings joy to his father, but a patron of prostitutes wastes his wealth.


7. A wise Godly man/husband is willing to admit he is wrong (28:13).

Pro 28:13  He who conceals his sins will not succeed; he who confesses and abandons them will gain mercy.


8. A wise Godly man/husband fears God and is obedient to His Word (13:13; 14:26; 16:20; 28:25; 31:30).

Pro 14:26  In the fear of Adonai is powerful security; for his children there will be a place of refuge.

Pro 14:27  The fear of Adonai is a fountain of life enabling one to avoid deadly traps.



What traits should a woman strive towards to become a godly woman/wife?


1) A Godly Woman Always Seeks to be Modest in Her Dress. 

Pro 7:10  Then a woman approaches him, dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart.

By contrast, the ungodly woman's clothing points to herself and her body instead of her Father in Heaven and His holiness.

2) A Godly Woman Always Seeks to be Truthful in Speech and Motives. 

Pro 7:21  With all her sweet talk she convinces him, enticing him with her seductive words.

Pro 7:22  At once he follows her like an ox on its way to be slaughtered; like a fool to be punished in the stocks;

Pro 7:23  or like a bird rushing into a trap, not knowing its life is at stake till an arrow pierces its liver.

This deceitful woman is an ugly woman because she is self-driven and wants her way. Her words and actions lead the man on a path to destruction. A beautiful woman wears heavenly beauty as God's Word describes it.

3) A Godly Woman Seeks to be Gentle and Quiet. 

Pro 7:11  She's the coarse, impulsive type, whose feet don't stay at home;

Pro 7:12  rather, she stalks the streets and squares, lurking at every streetcorner.

Coarse H1993  המה  hâmâh  BDB Definition: to murmur, growl, roar, cry aloud, mourn, rage, sound, make noise, tumult, be clamorous, be disquieted, be loud, be moved, be troubled, be in an uproar, to growl, be in a commotion, to be boisterous, be turbulent

4) A Godly Woman Seeks to Care for the Home.

Pro 31:13  ד She procures a supply of wool and flax and works with willing hands.

She manages her home well (Titus 2:5.) She loves to tangibly serve others with food and skills. She has a home that is open and hospitable and she is given to ministry to the sick and needy and less fortunate


5) A Godly Woman Strives to be a Person Who Can be Trusted. 

Pro 31:11  ב Her husband trusts her from his heart, and she will prove a great asset to him.


6) A Godly Woman Seeks to be Prudent in Financial Matters. A Godly Woman Seeks to be a Hard Worker

Pro 31:16  ז She considers a field, then buys it, and from her earnings she plants a vineyard.

Pro 31:17  ח She gathers her strength around her and throws herself into her work.

Pro 31:18  ט She sees that her business affairs go well; her lamp stays lit at night.

Pro 31:19  י She puts her hands to the staff with the flax; her fingers hold the spinning rod.

She is a saver not a spender. She can see beyond today alone.

God puts a premium on hard work and so she moves toward it not away. There is no slothfulness, indolence or lack of motivation.


7) A Godly Woman Seeks to Internalize Biblical Wisdom. 

Pro 31:26  פ When she opens her mouth, she speaks wisely; on her tongue is loving instruction.

Pro 31:27  צ She watches how things go in her house, not eating the bread of idleness.


The Word is in her heart and life and so it comes out of her mouth. And when it does it is dressed in the clothes of the Spirit, gentle and kind.



1. DECEIVABLE PEOPLE 2Co 11:3  and I fear that somehow your minds may be seduced away

2. MATERIALISTIC PEOPLE Gen 19:26  But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a column of salt.

3. CONTENTIOUS PEOPLE Pro 21:19  It is better to live in the desert than with a nagging, irritable wife.

4. DISCOURAGING PEOPLE Job 2:9  His wife asked him, "Why do you still hold on to your integrity? Curse God, and die!"

5 MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE Mat 14:8  Prompted by her mother, she said, "Give me here on a platter the head of Yochanan the Immerser."

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